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On August 12, a small group met at Lou Ann Sharrow’s home to discuss the Introduction for  Jacqueline Bussie’s Love Without Limits. Our initial impressions included empathy for Jacqueline as she shared the challenges that she faced and the vulnerability that she experienced as she realized her own bias and prejudices. We shared stories of bias we once possessed and how we are more conscious of other people’s perspectives as we explain our own perspectives or ask questions about topics that we may find confusing. We then continued our discussion by answering the discussion guide question: “Has anyone ever tried to silence you? What is the value of telling our stories? What is the power of telling the truth?”  As we each shared stories about being silenced about our beliefs or our identity, we realized how much we appreciate those who supported us in times of struggle and who continue to be advocates.

For the second half of our meeting, we participated in a PFLAG meeting via Zoom. The guest speaker was Dr. Kristen L Frank-Dixon, a primary care doctor who specializes in Gender Affirmative Care. She practices at the Geisinger Medical Group in Philipsburg.  We learned about gender dysphoria. According to the National Center for Biotechnology, “gender dysphoria (GD) refers to the distress related to a marked incongruence between one’s assigned gender at birth and the experienced gender.” Dr. Frank-Dixon shared that she began studying Gender Affirmative Care including the treatments and counseling needs for transgender individuals when she learned that when these individuals do not receive treatment, there is a 42% increase in the suicide rate. Dr. Frank-Dixon discussed misconceptions including the perception that gender dysphoria is a “phase.” She noted that if the individual’s attitude, beliefs, and behaviors persist on a daily basis for more than six months, this individual is beyond just exploring a different gender identity. Dr. Frank-Dixon answered questions about different treatment options for individuals that best match the age of the patient. She concluded her discussion by reminding the group that the mental health of a transgender individual is what matters most.

At the end of our time together, we reflected on Dr. Frank-Dixon’s advice. We discussed how we could be allies for individuals who are going through gender transitioning and how we could support others who have misunderstandings of gender identity. The Love Without Limits book group will meet again in September. The date is to be determined. If you have any questions about joining this group, please call the church's phone. 

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